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There was no reason for a 12 year old to pay attention to Patty Duke and her diagnosis of bipolar in the early 80s. Except I kept hearing her say over and over in interviews that it felt good that it had a name and now she could fix it. So I learned about her and what wasn’t to love. Nick at Night didn’t quite exist, but occasionally you could find a rerun of The Patty Duke Show. Miracle Worker with the amazing Anne Bancroft (who I love for so many reasons)? Amazing performances! Another Miracle Worker with my beloved Half-pint? Hell yeah! Married to Gomez Addams? But of course. Mother of Mikey in The Goonies? Love her in so many ways.

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But mostly for her voice. For advocating for mental health issues. For taking the conversation out of hiding. For showing me a path when I finally got to recovery and treatment. She showed that the ugliness of mental illness didn’t have to be the only perspective. She showed me I could work, be creative, be married, have a family. Doctors actually told me I shouldn’t have children. Patty had already shown me I could

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I only had half the number of her marriages, and I won’t complain about that. I found my Gomez. 😉

Please check out Sean Astin’s efforts to continue his mother’s work.

https://www.crowdrise.com/patty-duke-mental-health-project/fundraiser/seanastin1

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Tomorrow there will be no Easter egg hunt.  No silly clues telling the boys “Almost”.  No silly tasks to complete, like barking like a dog, to get a dollar.  No fights over who found both five dollar bills.  No counting the money at the pool table while eating the candy.

We also won’t sing happy birthday and watch Bearpaw open his birthday presents (four days early) as we always did on Easter Sunday.  We would wrap each part of the gifts separately because he loved opening presents.

Last year, on April 1, Bear and I went to the Longtimers’ Reception.  I received my 15 year clock.  I took a selfie of us.  The last photo of the two of us.

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We saw Bearpaw several more times in April, then in May, and in June.  June 20 was the last time we saw him. The last photos of him with the boys.

I don’t want to pass these “lasts”.

 

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