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Clearly, with today’s weather, I would rather be back in Orlando.  But we have been home for several weeks and time just flies by.  The boys are still playing with the new Buzz Lightyear and Zurg, so yea us!  We put a $15 limit on souvenirs per park and $15 at T-Rex Cafe. And they used their money wisely!

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They asked if they could hold money from one park for a larger item if they combined two days worth of money…hence the park exclusive versions of Buzz & Zurg.

I think one of the most amazing things about the trip was walking into Magic Kingdom on Halloween, dressed in our Halloween costumes, and holding my sons hands as we walked down Main Street.  I have such vivid memories of Main Street over the course of my life time and to share that memory with them now is fantastic.  I cried, of course, and Hubby just laughed.  Near me…not at me.  The first ride at Magic Kingdom was Pirates, like there was any question of that.  To ride the ride in my pirate costume however was a first.

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I actually missed standing in the line and feeling the ambiance build up.  But I also like FastPass, so we take what we can.  The boys asked how long after the movie did they make the ride…I humored them and gave them the history, again. 😉

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Pirates of the Caribbean, Haunted Mansion, Many Adventures of Winnie the Pooh ride, Prince Charming’s Regal  Carrousel, It’s a Small World, Mad Tea Party, Seven Dwarfs Mine Train, Buzz Lightyear’s Space Ranger Spin, fireworks, and of course, meeting Buzz Lightyear.  He did the Thriller dance and autographed Older Son’s Buzz Lightyear…by hand.  Not the action figure, but the box which is now proudly displayed in his room.

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We packed a lot into a few hours of that Not So Scary Halloween Party!

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Lazy autumn day

With Hubby at a work convention for his CEUs, the boys and I are spending a lazy day at home. We haven’t done that in quite awhile as there was always somewhere to be. So far the bathroom got a deep cleaning and I am fearful the washing machine will fight back with all the attention it’s suddenly getting. And I don’t have to cook dinner because we have a lovely church dinner to go tonight.

I am quickly losing motivation to do anything else purposeful. I see an hour or so cuddling up with a book in my future. Or cuddling with my sons if they aren’t too angry about the chores they had to do.

They had a bet this week that they could go a week without fighting, without YouTube, and would have clean bedrooms by the end of the week. All that for the low wager of $20 each if successful. If the parents won, the boys had to do five chores of our choice. They’re on chore #1. Fighting gets them every time. They even fought over whether or not they had a fight. But it was pleasantly quiet around here for four days. And their rooms will still get cleaned…chore #1.

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Last week we woke the boys up at 1 in the morning on October 29th and told them to get in the rocket sled. We told them we were going a grand adventure. They first guessed AMNH but quickly realized we were traveling the wrong way. So they guessed Philly Museum of Natural History, Museum of Art, Franklin Institute, Camden Aquarium, and the response was no, no, nope, no…. Then they see the sign for Baltimore. Younger son calls out, “Oh, we’re going to Poe’s grave for Halloween!” No, but good idea for next year.

As we drove past Baltimore and they realized they were passing the furthest most southern point yet traveled in their lives, they asked for a clue. We said “W”. Older son then quietly asked, ” Are we going to Walt Disney World? ”

Yes.

Total disbelief.

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Before we began reading, Older Son recalled last year when I came into his fifth grade classroom and read “The Raven”.  This is happily a good memory for him though tonight I apologized to him.  It was not the best selection because in my skewed world of what is normal family reading, I made a huge mistake in thinking all fifth graders enjoyed Poe…or even knew who he was.  I recovered at the end by making the connection to the Baltimore Ravens and then the classmates at least were polite in pretending to care.  I realized only tonight how much damage I potentially did to my son’s tender reputation in reading a little Poe in school.

But tonight, as I gently opened the care-worn copy of Poe, we delved this year into “The Black Cat”.  I felt this fitting considering we now have six felines living with us, yet none of them completely black so no nightmares should ensue.  Of course, the nine year old manages a nightmare every night…about two minutes after being tucked in.  I always marvel at how quickly he manages to succumb to REM sleep!

After the story, we chose a poem, “Fairy Land”, and we all quite enjoyed it.  We then read “Hymn” and I read it a second time and the boys caught the references better on that reading.  Then it was time for bed and I happened upon a poem that I had never read before while the boys prepared for slumber.

The title is simply “The Sleeper”.  One of the most haunting descriptions of a coffin is contained in this poem.  I wept while reading it.  I couldn’t have stopped myself if I had tried, but truthfully, I didn’t realize I was weeping till I tasted the tears.

“…The bodiless airs, a wizard rout,
Flit through thy chamber in and out
And wave the curtain canopy
So fitfully-so fearfully-
Above the closed and fringéd lid
‘Neath which thy slumb’ring soul lies hid,…”

And later,

“Forever with unopened eye,
While the pale sheeted ghosts go by!”

So sad, so haunting, so full of mourning.  What a tortured soul he must have been.  I am still sad that the Poe Toaster stopped the tradition.  I will have to enlighten the boys to that bit of history.  Younger Son had forgotten that they have visited Poe’s grave, so I suppose on the next trip to Baltimore we should visit it again.

Perhaps tomorrow night will be the annual reading of “The Raven”.  I shall read that poem till I can read nevermore!

 

 

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“Find someone to sit with you.  You’re not strong enough to do it on your own.  No one is.  Find someone to sit with you.” That’s Wallander’s dad’s advice to him.  His father is facing his death and he tells his son to look at the world.  He tells him to find someone to sit with.

Doesn’t matter who, in the end, it’s about having someone to sit with you.  You may start out thinking one person is the one who will sit with you, but you really can’t know what life has in store for you.  If for the person you planned on changes, find another.  Spouse, friend, lover, sister, brother, cousin, child.  Someone.  For me, it’s Hubby.  At times, it’s my boys.  But mostly, my Hubby.

As Pooh always says, it’s friendlier with two.  Say hello to someone today.  Sit with someone today and look at the world.  Don’t miss it.  It’s a beautiful thing.

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Yes, it was like Sixteen Candles but real.  Except I was the mom.  When the hell did that happen?  I prayed he would have fun and not be easily classified as Geek/Farmer Ted or John Cusack’s character.  Although, in two years when Younger Son can attend too, they could be John Cusack and Darren Harris.  Bryce and Cliff, having a blast.  But I digress.

I also didn’t want him to be Jake.  He’s too bloody young and this was the first dance!  And no, he is not allowed to be Long Duk Dong.

But truly, happy memories flooded my mind.  I doubt the soundtrack was the same, but I am sure the dance beat hasn’t changed too much.

As we were driving home, Older Son commented that he and his friends laughed and joked during the slow dances.  I started to say that he shouldn’t laugh or make fun of it, but realize that the kids dancing might be nervous, and he cut me off mid-sermon.  Laughing, he said, “Mom, you seem to forget one important thing.  I’m 11.  I’m supposed to make fun of it.”

Oh, how I love this kid.

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I have promised not to change my nose on the outside.  (Truly, that was never the plan).  I do hope this helps my left maxillary sinus and I won’t have to worry about which side for pictures anymore.

I will confess that I am somewhat concerned because the doc will be entering for the surgery the same way one would enter to do a lobotomy.  Now, I know, totally different surgery, but damn, it won’t leave my head.

I am officially fasting at this point, so it is time to go to sleep.

And in case you hadn’t heard, two more kittens,Rose and Charlie,  joined our family.   They are getting braver and should try the stairs to the great unknown any day now!

Prayers are welcome for the surgery.  Should I post a picture of my post-surgery face?  Does anyone really like looking at bruised, swollen faces?  I don’t really do selfies, but I suppose people may feel better seeing something like that to be able to say, “Glad that’s not me!”

 

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Vertigo_not sleeping well
Vertigo_possibly resolved by amount of fluid coming out of my head due to the
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Nose

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My boys current look reminds me of only one other set of brothers.

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The Brothers Gibb

barry and andy gibb

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